Hypnotherapy: Benefits (and what it can't do)
What can Hypnotherapy help with?
Have you ever felt like an unconscious part of you was getting in the way of your ability to have a fulfilling and pleasurable experience, or to achieve a goal or dream? Hypnotherapy can help you to develop a more beneficial relationship between the unconscious parts of yourself. This can result in the ability to have your life go better in some of the areas that are the most important to you. It can help when:
- You feel unable to stop smoking or hurting yourself in some other way, or engaging other self-destructive behavior.
- You're having irrational emotional responses to daily situations.
- You're feeling as though there are different parts of you that are battling over who gets to decide what you’re going to do, resulting in the inability to make clear decisions in your own best interest.
- You're feeling as though the ability to have a fulfilling life is beyond your reach.
Hypnotherapy has been proven to be effective in helping with:
- Stage fright and fear of public speaking
- Anxiety and panic
- Compulsive behavior
- High stress and tension levels
- Body image and making healthy choices
- High blood pressure
- Inability to make decisions
- Brain fog
- Self-esteem issues
It is good for:
- People who are in the midst of big life transitions
- People who are trying to get past self-sabotage to accomplish goals and dreams
- People who are struggling in their relationships with other people
- People who are wanting to have a richer and more pleasurable experience of being alive now
Some people are waiting for their dreams to come true. But is it possible that our dreams are waiting for US to come true?
Common Misconceptions about Hypnotherapy
Many common misperceptions, fearful beliefs and unrealistic expectations about hypnosis and hypnotherapy abound, leading some to hold back who could benefit, and giving others inflated ideas of their therapist's ability to make magical things happen. Here's a short list, and if you come up with any more I'd love to hear about them.
Belief #1. A hypnotherapist can control a client. Hypnotic trances are a consensual state. At all times you are in control, able to choose whether to reject or accept a suggestion. At no time could you be made to act against your own self-interest or to violate your own code of ethics, to disclose a secret that you'd rather keep secret, or to remember something from your past that your unconscious mind has "forgotten" as a way to protect you. In addition, in our sessions, I will show you how at any time if you feel uncomfortable you can bring yourself up and out of the trance into normal waking consciousness,
Belief #2. A hypnotherapist can do the work for the client. This probably comes from the apparent ease with which remarkable results can be achieved while in a pleasurable trance state. Any benefits come from a shift in the client's perspective, and this shift depends on their readiness, the degree to which they trust the therapist, and the degree to which the changes are perceived by the inner mind as desirable and don't threaten their values or self-interest. A good therapist can help a client access their own power to change, but the client does the work.
Belief #3. "I can't be hypnotized." If you are reading this and receiving meaning from it, you are using the same capacities that are being utilized in therapeutic trance states. In fact, some would suggest that in what we call our ordinary waking consciousness, we are constantly moving from one trance state to another, and a therapeutic approach to trance work simply assists the client in more deliberately choosing which trances to cultivate and maintain so that they are happening to their own life, rather than having their life happen to them.